Lynne Hybels

Monday, July 9, 2012

Congo Journal 23

Beauty and Violence in Rutshuru, Congo

Yesterday morning I had intended to write a new blog post about summer on Lake Michigan, where I’m vacationing with my family.  We’ve had a glorious week and I will write about it—with gratitudeeventually.  But yesterday I was ambushed by horrible news from Congo: intense fighting had broken out in the region the Ten for Congo team visited just weeks ago, possibly threatening the lives of some of our new friends. As the day went on, the news became increasingly grim.  Last night, the World Relief staff in Goma—people I know and love—waited in the darkness of night under the threat of violent attack.  Thankfully, the Congolese soldiers and rebel fighters en route to Goma were strangely “diverted” during the night, so the worst did not happen. Our friends in Congo don’t know whether the fighters have actually retreated or are just “regrouping,” so they ask for our continued prayer.  In the coming days, I’ll provide updates as information becomes available. In the meantime, please read the following guest post by my friend and travel companion, Christine Anderson.  Most of the Congo photos you’ve seen on my blog were taken by Christine.  In this post, Christine gives a lovely behind-the-scenes account of the day we spent with a group of women in Ruthshuru who had been victims of brutal gender-based violence (see Congo Journal 17). This will help you understand why our hearts are so entwined with the dear people of Congo.


Guest post: Christine Anderson
 
On the day we met with the women, I took over a thousand photos. About half of them are portraits.

One by one, the women sat on a narrow wooden pew next to an open window. With smiles and gestures, I tried to put each woman at ease. Sometimes there was a translator nearby and I could use words. “Tell her she is so beautiful,” I said again and again. And I meant it every time. The women captivated me. I had heard their shattering stories but the privilege of taking their portraits allowed me to see so much more—life and spirit and goodness.



After every three or four shots, I lowered the camera for a few seconds. I see you, I wanted to say without the camera coming between us. When I had fifteen to twenty photos, I went and sat next to the woman on the pew. I want you to see what I see. Leaning in close, I held up the display on the back of the camera and scrolled slowly through each shot. Do you see how beautiful you are?


We laughed and smiled and admired together, none of which required translation. This was pure joy—to give back to each woman a small piece of herself and call it beautiful.

Through the translator, the women asked if they might have copies of the photos. I promised I would send them. How am I going to get prints from Chicago back to Rutshuru, Congo?

After returning to the States, I discovered that a friend would soon be traveling to Kigali, Rwanda, on a month-long business trip. I immediately conscripted him into delivery service. The World Relief office in Kigali could easily get the photos to the World Relief staff in Congo. This weekend, I picked up nearly 900 prints and sorted them into envelopes, one for each woman.


Tragically, as I was packing the envelopes into a box, I got an email about a fresh outbreak of violence in Eastern Congo. In the very town in which we met with these women, Congolese soldiers and rebel militias faced off. Eventually, the national soldiers left in defeat, but looted shops and homes as they departed. As so often happens in conflict, civilians suffered most and have been forced to flee for their lives. Are “our women” on the run right now? Are they suffering—again?

Those of us who sat and listened and prayed with them just weeks ago are stunned and deeply grieved. Please join us in praying for the protection of these dear, beautiful new sisters from Rutshuru, for the Congolese pastors and other church leaders who serve so faithfully in the midst of very real dangers, and for the World Relief staff in Goma.  If you’d like to donate to World Relief Congo mobilization efforts for the victims of recent fighting, please click on the link below. 



8 comments:

  1. Beautiful portraits. They are in my thoughts and prayers.

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  2. Wonderful pictures Christine - such beauty! These women will be in my prayers for sure.

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  3. What a gift you are to these women, Christine! By capturing their beauty with your camera, and then the extra effort you took to sort through the photos so each woman could have their own gift. I wish we could be there when they get them. I cannot imagine how much this will mean to each individual person. And it will also be a reminder to them that we haven't forgotten them - something that was so important to them as we were leaving.

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    1. I agree, Sherri. Quiet, gentle Christine gave a far more precious gift to "our" women than we realized at the time. The gift of being remembered....

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  4. I can see why these pictures are making your heart burst. Beaming.

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  5. Vanda L. SoutheyJuly 9, 2012 at 11:11 PM

    Thank you for sharing your experiences and now, these photos of these beautiful women. And especially, thank you for all that you do. You guys make my heart smile. ❤ Bless you.

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  6. So glad you are following through with your promise of sending pictures to these women. So important on so many different levels. No one has very many pictures. Someone promised and followed through. I can not tell you how many missions groups come, peoples hearts are touched, they make great meaning promises, but when they get back home they get busy and forget. Yet the people are waiting for those promises to be fulfilled. What disappointment they face. Next time you come they will know they can believe what you say and can count on you. Will be much easier to share God's love with them.

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  7. We know how much hurt well-intentioned Westerners have caused by their failure to follow through on careless promises. Currently the photos are in Kigali, Rwanda--soon to be delivered to WR staff in Goma. As soon as it is safe, WR will deliver the photos to the women in Rutshuru. By the way, the "friend" who delivered the photos to Kigali is Fady Eldeiry, husband of Ten for Congo traveler, Lili.

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